A couple of dances while a third person leans on a wall and watches. Supply: iStock
â€œButâ€¦ donâ€™t you feel jealous?â€
â€œDo you resent your partnerâ€™s partner?â€
â€œDonâ€™t you feel insecure when your partner has been another partner or fan?â€
They ask is â€“ unsurprisingly â€“ about jealousy when I tell monogamous people that Iâ€™m polyamorous, one of the first questions.